By Nancy Smorch
I was sharing with you that last week was Health Week - I decided to focus on taking care of myself to make sure I was feeling the best I could. Well, despite all of the extra nurturing, I wound up sick!
I haven’t been sick in quite some time. I’m looking over what I did this past week to figure out what may have gone wrong (I tend to over-analyze things... this could be part of my problem).
I realized that even though I was eating great, exercising, sleeping well, and getting plenty to drink, my mind and thoughts weren’t quite where they needed to be.
This connection shouldn’t have come as a surprise to me. After all (have I ever mentioned?) I do a lot of alternative healing -B.E.S.T., or Bio-energetic Synchronization Technique especially, which is a way of removing the conscious and sub-conscious interference from your life and taking you out of "fight or flight" mode so your body can heal. I also do some other energy work, and a lot of stuff with essential oils.
In all of my studies for alternative healing, it's evident that even if you eat right, get good sleep, get plenty of fresh air and water, and exercise... if your thoughts are not supporting you, and you are putting yourself in a fight or flight state (stress), your body will become weak and open to infection, degeneration, and disease.
Today’s stressors are everywhere - we really can’t avoid them. But we can deal with them more effectively to ensure that we don’t get stuck in this mode. Our beliefs about who we are, what we are capable of, what the world is like, and our place in the world (among many other beliefs) play a huge role in our health.
I strongly believe we must pay very close attention to how we are talking to ourselves, as well as become aware of the limiting beliefs we hold about ourselves, to be fully healthy.
I think another important aspect of our emotional health is to remember that life can be (and should be) fun! I think too often we tend to take thing too seriously, and as the old saying goes, there's no need to make mountains out of mole hills.
I think also, especially for me, I spend a lot of time in my head. I can be a very analytical person and I love to solve puzzles and try to figure out why things happen the way they do. While this definitely serves me, too much time in my head and not enough time actually living can get me in trouble.
And I think that’s the stress that took me down this week.
So, recognizing this, I pulled out one of my books I recently purchased, "Mind Over Medicine," by Lissa Rankin, M.D.
I had scanned through it a bit before, but last night I was trying to go to bed in a better “state”, so I pulled it out and started reading it.
Turns out the forward was written by Kris Carr - the author of "Crazy Sexy Kitchen," which one of my followers had recommended (thank you michaelawanders!). Just reading those first few pages reminded me that I need to initiate some stress-relieving activities in my life on a more consistent basis.
Here are some ideas from Lissa’s book for decreasing the stress in our lives and turning on the body’s healing capacity:
Being with animals
Allowing yourself to express your creativity (whether through cooking, art, dance, sports, architecture, writing....)
Taking a bath
Getting a massage
There were many other options to consider. Obviously Lissa delves much deeper into this subject in her book, and it’s a great read - check it out, or visit her blog here to learn more!
All of these easy, simple options will calm your body into a state of rest and self-repair - the best medicine!
So, today, as soon as I’m done writing this post, I am going to go sit outside on this perfect day (sunny and 80 degrees), among our purple butterfly bushes and Russian sage, and write down 5 activities that would help me elicit this healing response in my body. But I won’t stop there.
Then, I will actually go and do one of them.
Would you like to join me? What are 5 activities that you could do that would nourish and nurture your Soul and help your body heal?